
Elinor and Marianne Dashwood are two vastly different characters although they are close sisters. Elinor keeps her feelings for Edward hidden inside her heart, and Marianne makes it clear to the world that she is in love with Willoughby and doesn't care who knows it. Elinor doesn't take out her bad feelings towards others like Edward's intended, Lucy Steele, she treats her civilly and shows no one her true inner feelings. Deep in her heart she resents Lucy for getting to Edward first, but she knows this is not fair of her to think so, because it was Edward who chose Lucy instead of her.
Marianne shows her resentment and ill feelings towards others openly. She rolls her eyes often when Mrs. Jennings daughter, Charlotte, gives her attention. She does not like the fact that Edward is reserved and genteel towards Elinor. Marianne has always viewed romance as something that is exciting and burns with a fiery passion. Observing the way that Edward is towards Elinor makes her doubt his affections. Throughout the novel, Marianne is selfish and cares only for Willoughby. She shows affection towards her immediate family, but any others, including Colonel Brandon, she takes for granted.
Because Marianne reminds him of his first love at a young age, Colonel Brandon watches over Marianne silently. Elinor senses his dedication to her, but as always, hides it away in her heart. Elinor seems to hold everything inside her spirit, never letting anyone in to help bear her burdens. As time goes on, keeping the secret of Edward's engagement to Lucy eats away at her. She finally reveals it to Marianne in a heated discussion.
Marianne does not take the time to get to know Willoughby's situation, she just falls headlong in love with him, never considering the future. Willoughby is also at fault for leading her on and just wanting to have a bit of fun with her in the beginning. He brings the despair of losing her to Colonel Brandon on himself because he made the situation what it was. After rescuing her on the hillside, he came back and let her feelings and lovely countenance carry him away.
After Marianne recovers from her near death experience, she realizes how she treated others for so long. She confesses to Elinor that had she died, she would have regretted leaving that way. In all of her depression and anxiety, she was caring only for herself. When she tells Elinor this, she confesses that she was selfish and did not show sincere concern for Elinor's grievances. Marianne learns to care for others instead of constantly brooding about her own problems. She has grown into a young woman by the conclusion of the novel, learning to be selfless and care for those closest to her.
Sense and Sensibility is one of Austen's most profound novels. While bringing to light the deepest desires of the human heart, it is also critical of 19th century society and its many rules. Marianne has a lust for passionate and dangerous love, while Elinor desires a quiet life with Edward. Marianne learns to love someone whom she would not look twice at before, and Elinor must learn to show her emotions and let her sister know her feelings so she may receive help and comfort. Both sisters grow tremendously by the end of the novel, and as a reader, we knew what was best for them from the beginning.




